In a loveless world that spins around KPIs and errands, watching a romantic film can help rekindle that dimming hope that your lover is somewhere out there. If only our love stories could be so intricately scripted with a shower of gold dust from heaven.
When I was younger, I had dreams of marrying this wonderful specimen of a prince. I would spend pockets of time looking at my future wedding gown on pinterest, mostly off-shoulder ones with an A line train, duchess satin, with a veil and a tiara. Yep.
So year after year passed; no one seemed to have appeared.
So, I started using a dating app, in hope that one day, something magical would come out of it.
Honestly, it has been a lonely, cold journey of finding love.
I never knew that true love can be so elusive, rare, and precious.
In this season of a love drought, I chanced upon this Korean film, Always.
An intricately-spun love story between an ex-boxer and a blind telemarketer, couldn’t be further from a fairytale. Two poor folk, with issues threatening to tear them apart, eventually find a way back into love. Despite the complicated web of circumstances and fate.
So Ji Sub. Han Hyo Joo.
I guess when you’re in love with someone who picks you, that’s the most beautiful kind of love in the world.
There was this scene when Hyo Joo, an ex-sculpture student, attempts to ‘see’ Ji Sub, by trailing her fingers across his gorgeous face, and absorbing the image in her head. That moved me to tears. Had not cried so hard at a film scene in a really long time. And when you fall hard in love, words take their place and fade into the backdrop. You love him by opening your legs and letting him come in hard and strong, exposing all vulnerability because that’s the only choice your heart can make.
Watch this if you’re bored of high school idol romance dramas, or you need to hope again, that true love, albeit imperfect, exists.
And also, if you’re looking for love,use a dating app, cos real life ain’ a script out of a Korean Drama.
You are your own scriptwriter.